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RE: Crappy night crappy day... - 10/18/2007 2:10:09 PM
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finch13
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I know how you feel, I've dated my girl for almost 4 years now and jealousy still continues, especially now that we go to different schools and live 300 miles away. But a play is a play and kissing is part of acting. How do you think actors and actresses feel about seeing their significant other kissing and portraying sex in films? Just let it go and if you love each other you'll forgive each other.
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RE: Crappy night crappy day... - 10/18/2007 2:10:41 PM
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Is there tongue involved?
If no tongue, I wouldn't think it's a big deal.
I'm not trying to belittle the issue. That is my opinion of how I would react.
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RE: Crappy night crappy day... - 10/18/2007 2:28:56 PM
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finch13
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Is this a high school or college play or just a random theatre club?
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RE: Crappy night crappy day... - 10/18/2007 2:29:37 PM
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Make out with her sister. That'll make it even.
but seriously, dont. lol. just make a joke out of it.
if their in drama club chances are the boy shes kissing is gay anyway. lol joking, kinda.
idk personally I wouldnt think its that big of a deal, its acting.
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RE: Crappy night crappy day... - 10/18/2007 2:31:44 PM
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finch13
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quote:
ORIGINAL: nafango2
...is gay anyway. lol joking, kinda.
hahahah. agreed.
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RE: Crappy night crappy day... - 10/18/2007 2:42:59 PM
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I feel sorry for you man, 300 miles is crazy! Good luck:) I wish you the best.
-High School play
-No tongue that I know of, but hey shes probably lying to me again
-She also has to be all over the guys, and hold a kiss for a long time
-I am in college but the guys she has to kiss are...**** I HATE THEM. Seriously, preppy, think they can do w/e they want and one of them told her she could sit on his lap because there werent any chairs left.
-And she does stupid other community plays, I also had a conflict with two of the guys there as well
-She says kissing is a part of plays, ok well how about I go to HIN and get some nice pictures of me with barely clothed women. That would piss her off to no end, but I would say "bikini contests and women dressed like that are a part of car shows, get over it" See where I am coming from. It is never fair. NEVER. I always get screwed in the end, and I dont want to end it...I really dont, but everythings getting just hard ecspecially when she does the same things over and over.
As far as actors and actresses go, that is their job and their husband or wife already know about that going into it.
First, I get jealous easily, and it doesnt help when other things have gone on. I have never betrayed or hurt her once, but shes done it a few times to me. Then she lies, by saying its a big deal and then last night she says I am over reacting and admits it isnt a big deal to her. She gets jealous when I hugged a girl I went to grade school with and have known longer than her. She never looks at it from any other way. For example, the hug thing, in another of the plays this guy kept poking her and hugging her so I got pissed, and then she said it wasnt a big deal, when she made a huge deal of hugging someone I have known for longer than a week. And other things that I dont need to say on here (not like that though) and its not fair. And this isnt a small relationship...we planned on getting marrried after we both are done with college.
And sorry if I am acting like a (you know). Thanks for the advice too guys...it helps alot ecspecially when you aren't flaming me. Im going on a walk and then in town, ill come back axiously to your replies. Thanks
Also, Mods, will you delete this thread when I request . Id prefer her not to see this.
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RE: Crappy night crappy day... - 10/18/2007 2:43:26 PM
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Has she cheated on you in the past? Admitidly if it were my GF I wouldn't want to see it so I probably wouldn't go to the play. I'd show up afterwards to support her and congratulate her but take full faith and trust her to do the right thing and that it is just a part of the role. My opinion is that if you can't trust someone either find a way to trust them (deal with your own issues or confront the person on theirs) or drop the relationship. It's natural for a male to be a bit jealous it just says that you care enough about her that you don't want to lose her. But don't let that push her away. I'd sit her down and tell her that I understand it's part of her acting and that it's not for any form of personal pleasure. I would then ASK if she would mind if I didn't see the play but showed up after it was done because it makes me uncomfortable seeing that but re-assure her that I would be there at the end and I know she'll do a great job.
Don't be responsible for loosing something that's dear to you by being so afraid of that loss that you push it away.
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RE: Crappy night crappy day... - 10/18/2007 3:02:53 PM
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nasty gave good advice there.
If you do not trust this girl/woman 100%, you need to end it now. That's the bottom line. You don't want to get stuck in a relationship if her mother is terrible.
You just got to college! Live a little! You haven't gotten to experience "jumping on the grenade" for the first time! You have a lot of living left to do!
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RE: Crappy night crappy day... - 10/18/2007 3:28:55 PM
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maybe its what i need to do...i blame my relationship for me not going to school...i was only 17 when i got with her....
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RE: Crappy night crappy day... - 10/18/2007 3:42:13 PM
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That's definitely not fair on her part. I get jealous easily as well and I'm not a fighter by any means, but maybe you need to go toss their sh*t and show some dominance. Once college started I got really defensive of my girl and it's working with the guys she goes to school with. If she's gonna be immature about it, and it's not something small, tell her to cut the sh*t or you're gone. The first thing I taught my girl was that if she was going to be stupid and play cat-and-mouse games I wouldn't put up with it. Best of luck to you and if you really love each other things will resolve.
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RE: Crappy night crappy day... - 10/18/2007 3:55:39 PM
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I can honestly say I know where you are coming from. My wife never once cheated on me at all but if she see's a friend and gives them a hug it's cool, but if I do it (unless it's certain people that she likes) she gets all bent out of shape. And I can forget about going to hooters or something of that nature (HIN might be an exception if she could come along...).
Side note on trust: Typically speaking the parter who accuses someone of cheating is the one who themselves cheated in the past. They feel bad for cheating so they want to blame it on their partner and in a way want their partner to do it so they are "equal" again. yeah it's strange but it's true.
Anyway, I hope it works out the way it's supposed to but I know it sucks while you are going through it. I would also ask her to stop being flirtaous with other cast members and to at least stand up for you (I.E. some guy asks her to sit on his lap and she says "sorry but I wouldn't do that to my boyfriend")
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RE: Crappy night crappy day... - 10/18/2007 4:40:47 PM
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first off, nasty gave some GREAT advice with this
Don't be responsible for loosing something that's dear to you by being so afraid of that loss that you push it away.
and I know because I have...and standing on a edge because I do love the woman so much....and I don't even know if we are going to be getting back together (I have been told friends for now and that's the best she can offer, so who knows? I pray and that's the best I can do besides hope she can see the new me coming out)
but if you really love her, AND if she realy truly loves you....then she shouldn't be playing these games, its not fair to you in the end....and I mean in the end of messing with your heart and emotions...lies, deciet and cheating always seem to go hand in hand and they WILL eventually destroy what you are seeing as a good thing right now. I say show the dominance, tell her if she can't respect you by staying off other guys laps, hugging and playing around with hem and junk and respext you as "HER BOYFRIEND AKA PRE ENGAGEMENT TYPE THING", then your gone brother....move on as they say. sure there are plenty of girls out there that would just kill for a straight up honest type guy.
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w/e ive already put up with so much of her crap but i never do anything back. I always forgive, forgive, forgive. 
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