Having trouble with my son's 97 accord lx automatic 4cyl. four door's parking lights. They will not go off unless I unhook the battery. Also, this car has a security system on it and don't know if this was on the car or aftermarket but the red light on the steering column flashes but will not quit when using the remote (put new batteries in it). Could this be a problem too, and can I remove the security system. Thanks