ok i am getting some clunking when hitting bump and pot holes. so want to sure it back up. where can i get a complete parts kit like this one, but want to stay away from ebay parts b/c most of the time they are cheap. would like to do both front and rears.

 

Well... OEM parts can be found online at http://www.tasauto.com, any parts they don't have can be found at dealers selling parts online (Majestic or South Bay Honda)

It would be better and cheaper to find where the clunks are coming from first. Rockauto is another good place and I would get my control arms there, they'll already have the bushings pressed in, saving you money.

Sway bar end links (lower left of pic) can be had at the auto parts store for $25 each, Moog is a good brand that uses a solid steel socket for the ball joint on them, unlike the plastic that Honda uses.