hey thanks my brother! I have a VERY long way to go on my front....I know I do....her family isn't liking me, her friends don't and her counselor don't......so lots of work and love and show of compassion on my behalf....and believe me when I say I may not even deserve that second chance with her....I was a real A-hole....to a point I couldn't believe.

and I know EXACTLY on how you feel when you say you couldn't find another one like her....simply put, you can't.

quick little story,

years ago I thought I had met the ONE, didn't work out and se went her way, I went mine and eventually got married, well the wife found out about this other girl which I had carried feelings for for over 15 years......wife and I eventually divorce and after some time I meet this woman that I am drop dead, head over heels in love with, we spent some close intimate times together and now are broken/maybe working on things.....I couldn't tell you what the first girls name was (the one I was supposedly sooooooo in love with), what she looked like, facial exressions....nothing. But ask me anything about the one that truly DID capture my heart......took me 35 years to find that, my brother......and even through all of this, wouldn't trade it for the world....I love her THAT much....even if I am to not have her and be alone that's ok with me too.....because I couldn't be fake with someone else knowing that this one woman will have my heart for the rest of my life.


soul search yourself and ask yourself (and this will be real hard to ask, and the answer may be even worse) ask yourself, "Is this what I really want in my future? Can I deal with times like these forever?" the answer may not be the one your expecting it to be....but that's where the searching comes in.....and sometimes, it just plain sucks.

me I have and hold my hopes...best I can do because I have searched myself...she is THE ONE for me so I need to man up, keep repairing myself, our trust in each other and hope that the love rebuilds also.

I got lucky (extremely lucky) we went to lunch and I got to go see her that night for a few hours......never been happier in my life....even got some hugs!

 

If I were you and her mom and dad were both giving me crap, I would walk. You don't need that garbage. It's between you and her and her parents need to keep out of it. You don't want a girl that's parents are that into everything. If you eventually got married, her parent would try to tell you how to live your life, raise your kids, etc.. if I were you, I'd walk away before it gets worse. There are plenty more girls out there. If she really loved you, she would not have laughed and lied to you like she did.

 

Hmph....
Well the past couple of days have been awkward...and lots more crying on her part, but I stood my ground and basically said I am either ending it or doing it back to her. So I think I may have to get revenge. I know, it is sinking to her level, but it will most likely hit her and wake her up and she'll realize how sucky it is. And if not...bye bye.

I havent seen her parents since and dont really feel like it. I figure we'll hang low for a bit, even though we havent hung out much.On the night of her play I am going to headout with my boys and go somewhere...idk where but someplace and just not think about it.Most likely it will make her wonder where I am and what im doingduring the whole play. Ill still prolly go one of the nights justfor ashort bit to actually see it[&:]. Ijust want this to go away.

I have homework, and have to research whether HID's will fit into my projectors as the bulbs are a little longer I guess and whether 6000k is gonna get me a ticket, which I CANNOT have.

Thanks again for everything guys Means alot, and sorry I didnt repond to every post. Ill put in updates, or let ya know if anything else stupid happens. Thanks! Bro's before Ho's!

 

Good luck man. Keep us updated.

 

this makes me think of the foot massage in pulp fiction

 

LOL .... Royale w/ cheese

 

GREAT ADVICE!

in my honest OPINION, i think that you should just forget about that B**** and move on, she's not worth the trouble
you have a whole life ahead of you and you are wasting it on this BS!

just move on and try to take it one day at a time

 

that's easy to say when it's not you. I agree that if the BS doesn't stop immediately he should end it, but I also understand love, heart-break and not wanting to listen to logic. Break-ups can really hurt and take time to recover from, but in the end, if justified it is better to end it.

 

^ couldnt have said it better.

But, hey a person can only take so much, and I am about at the breaking point!

 

logic > love

the heart heals.
stupidity lasts forever.