You can use something like a T pin, available at Walmart, etc., and backprobe. These pictures are just to give a picture of the concept of backprobing without piercing any wires.

https://www.hondaaccordforum.com/for...%5D-t-pins-jpg

https://www.hondaaccordforum.com/for...back-probe-jpg

 

So I probably found my issue.. This is my yellow wire on the door side of the 10p connector. It broke somewhere in the rubber sleeve. I was attempting the tests described above and noticed the wire felt loose. I will fix and see what happens!

Not sure how I didn't notice before... The connector seemed ok yesterday lol

Edit: I made a small incision in the rubber and used a few pairs of tweezers to fish the wire out. I then held both ends together and when I pressed the lock/unlock button it worked!

redbull-1 Thank you very much for the help, I really appreciate it. I'm stoked to be able to use my window and door!

 

You're welcome. I'm glad the issues are resolved.