This sound about right? Anyone know the size of the washer to replace on the drain bolt?

1. Warm up the engine.
2. Shut off engine.
3. Remove the drain bolt
4. Reinstall the drain bolt with a new washer. Tighten bolt to 29 ft lbs.
5. Refill the engine with 5W20 oil.

At Oil Change: 4.0 L (4.2 US qt)
At Oil Change Including Filter: 4.2 L (4.4 US qt)

6. Reset the Maintenance Information

NOTE:
* The vehicle must be stopped to reset.
• If the required service is done and the display is not
reset or if the display is reset without doing the
service, the system will not show the proper
maintenance timing. This can lead to serious
mechanical problems because there will be no record
of when maintenance is needed.
1. Turn the ignition switch ON (II).
2. If oil life is more than 15 %, press the SEL/RESET ****
repeatedly until the engine oil life is displayed.
3. Press the SEL/RESET **** for about 10 seconds. The
engine oil life and the maintenance item code(s) will
blink.
NOTE: If you are resetting the display when the
engine oil life is more than 15%, make sure the
maintenance items requiring service have been done
before resetting this display.
4. Press the SEL/RESET **** for another 5 seconds. The
maintenance item code(s) will disappear and the
engine oil life will reset to "100.

7. Run the engine for more than 3 minutes, then check for oil leakage.

 

That sounds right. It looks like you copied it from some service manual.

I would check the oil level on the dipstick after you add the 4 quarts.

 

Washer should be 14mm, double check at the parts store or dealer.....I buy them in a pack of five, of course I have a few Honda's