has this ever happened to you
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RE: has this ever happened to you
They don't have to be blonde for that work.... The fact of the matter in this situation is that lets say it really was someone lying and trying to break you up, then what? However, the best thing to do would have been either come clean a long time ago. If you weren't up for that then make certain that no-one knew and live the lie to your grave. Although, since it's been exposed now then a few days for her to stop and think, call every day and tell her how much you care about her, even if she won't answer the call leave it on the Voice Mail. Send flowers or a singing telegram with flowers, Apologize, ask for forgivness.
As for going after the person who said it I think it's BS that they did, it wasn't there place to say anything but it's not their fault that you made that mistake. Stand up, take responsibility and keep your cool. Some women will percieve that if you go after the person who told her that you were NEVER going to tell her and that just makes them more upset, it's all situation depending. The thing you need to ask is why are you in this situation in the first place? Who made it a possibility for this to even occur?
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As for going after the person who said it I think it's BS that they did, it wasn't there place to say anything but it's not their fault that you made that mistake. Stand up, take responsibility and keep your cool. Some women will percieve that if you go after the person who told her that you were NEVER going to tell her and that just makes them more upset, it's all situation depending. The thing you need to ask is why are you in this situation in the first place? Who made it a possibility for this to even occur?
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RE: has this ever happened to you
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They don't have to be blonde for that work.... The fact of the matter in this situation is that lets say it really was someone lying and trying to break you up, then what? However, the best thing to do would have been either come clean a long time ago. If you weren't up for that then make certain that no-one knew and live the lie to your grave. Although, since it's been exposed now then a few days for her to stop and think, call every day and tell her how much you care about her, even if she won't answer the call leave it on the Voice Mail. Send flowers or a singing telegram with flowers, Apologize, ask for forgivness.
As for going after the person who said it I think it's BS that they did, it wasn't there place to say anything but it's not their fault that you made that mistake. Stand up, take responsibility and keep your cool. Some women will percieve that if you go after the person who told her that you were NEVER going to tell her and that just makes them more upset, it's all situation depending. The thing you need to ask is why are you in this situation in the first place? Who made it a possibility for this to even occur?
Confess, Apologize, Beg, Repeat:
They don't have to be blonde for that work.... The fact of the matter in this situation is that lets say it really was someone lying and trying to break you up, then what? However, the best thing to do would have been either come clean a long time ago. If you weren't up for that then make certain that no-one knew and live the lie to your grave. Although, since it's been exposed now then a few days for her to stop and think, call every day and tell her how much you care about her, even if she won't answer the call leave it on the Voice Mail. Send flowers or a singing telegram with flowers, Apologize, ask for forgivness.
As for going after the person who said it I think it's BS that they did, it wasn't there place to say anything but it's not their fault that you made that mistake. Stand up, take responsibility and keep your cool. Some women will percieve that if you go after the person who told her that you were NEVER going to tell her and that just makes them more upset, it's all situation depending. The thing you need to ask is why are you in this situation in the first place? Who made it a possibility for this to even occur?
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RE: has this ever happened to you
Thats good its okay now. But make sure there is no more messing around. You dont want your child to get hurt because you wanted a few hours of fun with some other girl.
This may be a prime chance to really start over, look at your relationship and take it a step farther. Be committed, honest, loving and fun. After awhile you both will be even more happy and refreshed. If I were you, I would have her sit down and have a converstaion. Discuss how much you love each other beforehand and recognize you both want to be together (assuming you both do). Then both of you should tell each other everything, and I mean everything. There is nothing like a fresh start, and be sure to work at it. You wont get many chances to. Good luck, let us know how it goes and if you need some more man to man advice!
This may be a prime chance to really start over, look at your relationship and take it a step farther. Be committed, honest, loving and fun. After awhile you both will be even more happy and refreshed. If I were you, I would have her sit down and have a converstaion. Discuss how much you love each other beforehand and recognize you both want to be together (assuming you both do). Then both of you should tell each other everything, and I mean everything. There is nothing like a fresh start, and be sure to work at it. You wont get many chances to. Good luck, let us know how it goes and if you need some more man to man advice!
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